Lu Jin Nian and Qiao An Hao (From Guomin Laogong Dai Huijia Manga) wasn’t married by her own option or choice. According to her getting married by not on your choice can lead you towards many difficulties and because of this you get isolated with everyone.

Females become imprison within the cycle of not getting happily married and later face serious long consequences such as self-harm. Isolation is one amongst the most important issues.

They feel they need nobody to whom they will speak. So, on their wedding night Qiao An Hao created 3 rules relating to their wedding. First is that you are not allowed to touch me.  

Second is you are not allowed to announce in public that I’m your wife. Third is that you are not allowed to tell anyone that we are living together.